Saturday, October 10, 2026

Leaves, Trees, And Forests

 

We have all heard someone described as “He (or she, to be fair) can’t see the forest for the trees.”  It is a description of someone who is so focused on the various individual things that they can’t see the big picture.  They don’t have a clue or are so strictly focused on the parts that they don’t see the whole picture.  Then there are people who get all the way down into what is going on around them that they don’t see the trees because of all the leaves that keep blocking the view of what the pesky leaves are obscuring.  We have all had the experience of being with and dealing with people like these.  It would be like going to the Grand Canyon with them.  While you are taking in and enjoying the whole experience, the awesome views, a tree person would want to focus on the various strata, the individual layers and not see them are part of the whole.  A leaf person would be focused on singular part, like looking at a strata and analyzing or gazing at it part by part, like picking a certain section that varies or a large boulder that disturbs the strata lines.  Each one comes away with a difference and, if asked, would say they had a good time.  The forest person would have enjoyed the beauty and wonder of God’s creation.  The other two missed the whole experience because they refused to look or were so wrapped up in their focus that they didn’t see the picture of God’s creation.

 

On a personal level, it would be like a married couple who, one or both, have an outside interest, activity, or hobby they enjoy.  Nothing is wrong with that.  Couples don’t have to have the same interests.  Each can certainly do or have an interest or hobby and enjoy those experiences as well.  But when the interests start consuming more and more time and attention, the beauty of the marriage and the sum of its parts don’t add up to a whole.  As the marriage forest fades away because of a focus on something else, the trees block the view of something special.  Perhaps there are gaps in the trees so the whole can be glimpsed.  However, when the activity becomes all consuming, the trees disappear and the sole focus is on the activity.  It went from marriage to time-robbing actions to the leaves that blocked everything out.  And remember, leaves fall, the trees become bare, and the forest, and marriage beauty, is lost.

 

God sees it all.  He sees the leaves, the trees, and the forests.  His is an all-inclusive sight.  We are given the gift by God of seeing the wonders of what we do here and what will come.  We see the beauty of God’s promise, eternity with him.  However, the enemy can turn us in his direction by moving our focus a little at a time.  For instance, let’s say you are going to church every Wednesday night.  Many people do, to pray, worship God and learn.  What Satan would do gradually is change your participation.  Over time, Wednesday night church becomes an habit instead of a choice.  On a question of what you doing that night, you might say,
 “We go to church every  Wednesday night.”  It became a habit, a duty, an opportunity  rather than to pray and worship.  Over time, it would lose some of it is draw and it was “okay” to skip it occasionally, until that too became the habit.  And Satan would have won another round.  The forest had receded, the trees faded, and the leaves lost their attraction.

 

God has seen all of this, countless times.  So, what can, or will, you do about it?  Be aware of how and when and where you worship.  I’m not saying you have to go to a Wednesday service.  What you do have to do is be aware of how you worship. Be aware of Satan’s attempts to get you to stop working with God and worship him instead.

 

So, take a look at yourself and your relationship with God.  If you worship and pray in a particular way, then be conscious of Satan’s wiles and efforts to change that, to lessen that.

 

The question, therefore, is are you maintaining your connection with God, are you doing what you can to strengthen it, to defend it?  There are many positive ways to do these.  It is okay to change how we worship God, just so long as we don’t fall into the traps Satan has set.

 

Remember, God conquers all, but it is up to us to use his strength, his grace, to be on the winning side and receive our eternal reward.

Sunday, October 4, 2026

Decisions: Good And Bad

 We are faced with many opportunities to make decisions every day.  Most of them are not serious or world-changing.  What’s for supper? Which outfit do I want to wear to go to work/shopping/church?  And others like that.  Some are more serious, like choosing a career.  How about choosing the person you want for a spouse to share the rest of your life with you?  That sounds kind of cold blooded, but that is what we do.

We can also make a decision to do something wrong or even evil.  Perhaps it is stealing from someone or your company.  Or maybe cheating on that spouse who thought life with you was going to happen.  How about plotting revenge?

I’ve made both kinds of decisions, good and bad.  Marrying my wife was definitely good.  Choosing to spend more than 20 years as a Navy pilot was also good.  One decision that was bad was choosing to spend more than 15 years as a catastrophe insurance adjuster.  The money was very good, six figures most years.   What was bad was being gone for months at a time.  I thought I needed to do that to maintain a certain lifestyle.  My wife asked me to stop many times and find a different job but, as a brother said, I was in love with the money.  Why was that bad?  I missed anniversaries, birthdays, holidays and just being home with my wife.  When the assignments stopped, I was slowing down at 75.  I looked back at those years and apologized to her many times and admitted that it was one of my worst decisions.

That was my choice to do that to both of us.  God gave all of us the gift of free will.  We can choose to do good or do bad, even fooling or lying to ourselves that the bad was good.  God will try to point out the bad ones, like hints or events, or outright requests.  He also lets us know when we have made a good decision by rewarding us in some way.  Perhaps it is a person who leads us in a good decision, like focusing on a better job or maybe a church that will feed us spiritually.  Or how to spend better time with that for-ever spouse.  He isn’t going to post a banner or billboard proclaiming our good ones.  He will let us know in subtle ways.  We will know that good things are now in our lives.  We may not realize how God put his hand in it.  That’s okay.  If we do, we need to thank him.  In my case, I have a job in retail.  I enjoy dealing with the customers and solving their problems.  The money isn’t even close to that adjuster job, but I am home every night, even just quiet ones.  God knew what I needed to do to get on the right path.  Then he opened up a Christian men’s group to feed that need.  And, lastly, a church I enjoy attending. 

Do you see yourself in your current life?  A good job?  A loving spouse, and children if that is part of it?  A church of some denomination that feeds your soul?  Then people who enrich your life, whether long term or just for a little while?

God is there for us 24/7.  He will help us go through life in the best way.  He also forgives us when we make a bad decision, no matter how long or serious.  Do you ask him for guidance when you need to decide something?  If not, start the next time.  He used my wife to “nudge” me to apply for this current job and I’ve been there for six years.  He may just whisper in your ear.  Or, send a person or event to show you the right way.  He is on your side.  Are you going to make a good decision by listening to him or are you going to make the bad decision with the consequences? 

It is your free will.  So, good or bad?  Choose.